@ktiviTi rUtin H@rian ku masa cuti sEm. .

pagi. .bngun n solat subuh. .pas ue law ngantok tdow blek. .hu3. .kalau x ngantok. .maen game. .


then. . .pkul 8. .g beli surat khabar atok. .pas ue,belek2 moto ku. .


tgh hari makan then solat zuhur. .ptg g test moto. .laju ke tidak. .hehehehe. .bukan mat rempit ye. .


pkul 6. .blek umh .then ikut abah g surau law ak x pnt laa. .


pas ue berjaga smpai pg, .melayari internet. .boring nye aktiviti rutin ku, .hu3. .boring tp enjoy gak. .


hahahahhaa, .:-)

DAa nK hBs sEmeSteR 1 daa

Bnyk yg ak dpt blaja khdupan d universiti nie. .
                   ak hrp ak dpt pointer yg bgus untuk sem 1 nie. .
                                  ak nk ucap terima kasih pd bdk rmh2 ak coz sudi kwn ngn ak. .
                                                  azam ak pd sem hadapan . . .
            AK NAK WAT TERBAIK UNTUK SEM 2 DARI SEM 1 NIE. .
INSYAALLAH. .
       doakan ak ye kwn2 ku. . .




                                   

CyBeRbULLyinG is NoT sTyLe. .

Now I want to say about cyberbullying based on the image shown above. . .

                                                                                   

Bullying is not new but thanks to the Internet teens are now being bullied at home. Online harassment, more often called cyberbullying, is a serious problem. When bullying comes home via the Internet it can leave victims feeling helpless and overwhelmed.

                                                                                              

Cyberbullying is any harassment that occurs via the Internet. Vicious forum posts, name calling in chat rooms, posting fake profiles on web sites, and mean or cruel email messages are all ways of cyberbullying. A student is bombarded by anonymous threatening and taunting emails at home, even though there is no direct harassment at school. The victim has no idea who is sending the messages and starts to feel like everybody is against them. That student is being cyberbullied. A school bulletin board is spammed with name-calling posts that spread vicious rumors about a specific student. The rumors aren’t true but kids at school see the posts and believe them. The student is then ostracized by peers. This student is the victim of cyberbullying.

A nasty fake profile is posted at a social networking site using a student’s real name, photo, and contact information. That student starts getting weird email messages from strangers who think the profile is real. Some of the messages are crude. Some of the messages are mean. This is another example of cyberbullying.

These are just a few examples of cyberbullying. If you are taking part in things like this it is not harmless fun. You are being a cyberbully. If you are the victim of this type of treatment you are being cyberbullied and there are things you can do to stop the harassment.

Cyberbullying unquestionably has a negative impact on its victims.  The fact that internet harassment is meant to psychologically agitate its victims lends it to being harmful in nature. Studies have shown that victims feel a wide range of negative emotions as a result of being cyberbullied.  These include anger, sadness, feeling hurt, embarrassed and afraid. Other effect of cyberbullying is undermining your confidence, self-esteem and sense of security, affecting your performance and attendance at school, causing stress and affecting your health, affecting your professional reputation and career, marginalising certain groups, fuelling prejudice in areas such as race, religion and sexuality, leading to suicidal thoughts and affecting you for the rest of your life.  It was found that those who experience cyberbullying also experience a range of negative behaviors.  These include poor concentration, low school achievement, and absenteeism from school. Another problem of these negative emotions and behaviors is that the victim is more likely to resolve this strain through some sort of antisocial behavior.  Cyberbullying is too new a phenomenon to tell what it's long term effects on an individual will be. Just as cyberbullying can have an extremely negative impact on your students, it can be very harmful to teachers and other members of the school workforce.

Bullying has been around forever but cyberbullying is different because it lets a bully remain anonymous. It is easier to bully in cyberspace than it is to bully face to face. With cyberbullying a bully can pick on people with much less risk of being caught. Bullies are natural instigators and in cyberspace bullies can enlist the participation of other students who may be unwilling to bully in the real world. Kids who stand around doing nothing in a real life bullying incident often become active participants in online harassment. The detachment afforded by cyberspace makes bullies out of people who would never become involved in a real life incident. The Internet makes bullying more convenient and since the victim’s reaction remains unseen people who wouldn’t normally bully don’t take it as seriously.

There are many things that can be done to combat cyberbullying. The most important thing a victim of cyberbullying can do is not respond to the bully. Do not play in to the bully's games. Do not answer emails, do not respond to posts, do not engage in a chat room exchange, and do not copy what the bully is doing. Ignore the bullying and get help from parents and teachers. While ignoring the bully be sure to save the evidence so that school officials, Internet providers and even the police can properly deal with the bully. Cyberbullying may give bullies anonymity but it always leaves evidence.

Schools take all types of bullying seriously. As soon as the cyberbullying starts go to school officials for help. Cyberbullying is often an extension or escalation of bullying that is already happening at school. Parents should also be told what is happening. The police are unlikely to become involved if the bullying is limited to a few isolated incidents or a couple of mean emails or instant messages. However, if you get even one communication that includes a threat of bodily harm or a death threat the police should be alerted. Be aware that urging suicide is considered a death threat and the police will treat it accordingly.

Repeated or excessive harassment via email, forums or chat rooms is harassment and should involve the police. Threats of violence should also be reported to the police. Try to save all messages as evidence. The police will know what to do from there. You do not need to put up with cyberbullying. You can get help. Cyberbullying leaves a clear trail of evidence and this can work to the advantage of the victim. Cyberbullies are just bullies with a new weapon in their arsenal of harassment; treat them like you would any bully and they lose their power.

ArTicLe ReViEw . .

Hari Raya Puasa is a very important occasion that is celebrated by Muslims all over the world. It is also known as the festival that marks the end of one month of fasting. The words "˜Hari Raya' mean 'day of celebration.' Many mistake Hari Raya Puasa for the Muslim New Year but it is not.

Ramadan

What is Ramadan? Ramadan is the name of the one-month fasting period when Muslims fast for a period of almost 12 hours. They fast from dawn till sunset. It is a known fact that during the period of fasting, apart from eating and drinking Muslims are also forbidden from smoking and having sexual relations. Only the sick are excused from fasting during this month. Muslims are expected to avoid lying, breaking promise or cheating during the month of Ramadan. The primary purpose of fasting during Ramadan is to remind all Muslims of self-control and submitting to Allah, the holy one. Even young kids are taught to fast when they are young.

Preparations

In a country like Singapore where there are a number of Muslims, Hari Raya preparations can be seen at least one month before the festival. Geylang Serai, the place that is known for the Muslims to gather, is always filled with large crowds during Ramadan. Bazaars would be set up and they would be selling numerous festive items for Muslims. Carpets, clothes, bags, food, music CDs, household items and VCDs would also be sold at Geylang. At night the place is lit up with glittering lights. There would also be a wide variety of food which would be sold at the fairs and they include kuehs, otah-otah, cakes, buns, breads, curry, noodles and even curry puffs. Most of the Muslims shop here to get the food to bring home to eat when they are breaking the fast. The time when the Muslims break the fast is usually around 7:15pm.

Celebrations

Celebration for Hari Raya Puasa starts at least a month ahead, during the fasting period of Ramadan. Women start to sew beautiful curtains and buy new clothes for the family. Some families also do renovation for the house so that the house would look better when the guests visit it during the festival. After fulfilling their one-month of fasting, the Muslims would be joyful to celebrate Hari Raya Puasa. On the morning of the festival, the Muslims would wear their new clothes and go to the mosque to pray. They offer their thanks to God and after that they would ask for forgiveness from their elders. This is an important custom followed by the Muslims.

They feel that the young ones asking forgiveness from their elders is very essential. On the day, they also visit their relatives and friends to celebrate the happy occasion. If you visit Muslims' homes on Hari Raya Puasa you can expect to taste a wide variety of delicious spicy dishes. Some favorite dishes that can be found in Muslims homes on this special occasion are ketupat, lontong, nasi padang and beef rendang. The Muslims also have the habit of giving packets of money to kids when they go visiting. The packets are usually be in green color and children often look forward to getting these money tokens on Hari Raya Puasa. Overall, Hari Raya Puasa is a delightful festival for the Muslims.

A LeTteR to a dEpResSed pErSoN. . .YOU ARE NEVER ALONE! ! !

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                                                                                            05  August  2011

Dear Mohd Syafiq,

I have heard your plea for help. I hope you don’t do anything lunacy and reckless bear in mind that I will not judge your reasons whatever they may be for wanting to commit suicide. I sure you want a happy life and your problems still have a solution. You do not need to solve problems by suicide because to me, suicide does not solve the problem. I say that because I have experience of close friends so I wanted to commit suicide on the pressures encountered. 

In the past school age, I have a best friend named Khairul Izzudin. He is my closest friend. He has no friends other than me, because people do not want to be friends with him and often mocked. I have sympathy for him because he was just lonely and I was friends with him. He was always told me about his problem and he has many problems. He also said he wanted to commit suicide only because of problems he never completed. He was always alone and it made me worry about him because he had the intent to commit suicide due to pressure from the problems experienced. 

The next day, I do not see him and this is worrying me. I went to his house and found his house empty. I tried to greet but no one answered. I tried to open the door and found the door did unlocked. I was directly into his house and found him wanted to commit suicide. Without a long thinking, I hugged him and throw knives hand. after that, he regretted his actions and now he has succeeded in his life. He has become well-known advisers that he has opened a counseling center to treat people with stress problems.he has been the story of his past as a guide for all people by providing counseling. 

I'll leave you with a pieces of advice, try to express yourself a bit more. Take a step forward and you will be amazed by what you might find just by taking a step into the future. The future is always bright and embrace each and every new day with a smile. Do not ever give up on God and the future. Another advice would be to pray as much as you can regardless of what your religion is. In Islam, because I'm a Muslim, suicide is the worst crime one can do because committing suicide means that you do not believe in Allah. 

 Tips and Troubleshooting With Quiet Rationale 

1. Scrape all the bad thoughts and not good about other people, things, objects and situations. Train yourself to think better and focus on only positive values. 
2. Control your feelings and emotions. Do not let emotions control you thinking. Try to take a deep breath and exhale slowly if you feel you are not emotionally stable. 
3. Clear the box thinking of the feelings sad, wistful, and any negative feelings. Clear as we empty the pockets, our pants. 
4. Renew our minds with a more rational thinking and creative thinking of a positive and stimulating. 
5. Do good to anyone. By helping people and making services can bring tranquility, peace, raising self-respect and pride. 
6. Try to hear other people's problems and try to give advice or think the best way to cheer him. Indirectly, this will train us to be more mature in dealing with various problems of life. 
7. Remove all the negative feelings such as fear, nervous, unsure, doubt, doubt and low self-esteem but not the action with terlintasnya feeling suicidal. Remember the suicide would not solve any problems. 
8. Sometimes without a problem because we realized we were far from God. The problem is that we hover yourself again, do a lot of forgiveness and keep praying for Muslims. 
9. Remember, as soon as our shift, there is yet one more difficult. You should be thankful that there are options and other alternatives to solve the problems one by one. 
10. Try to calm down to think about things that you can rejuvenate your mind as you think about the beauty of flora fauna, the beauty of the sound of waves lapping the beach, the sky is blue or what you like. 
11. Find a friend who can be trusted to share all the problems. Try to get advice or suggestions how to solve problems an expert counseling you face from playing this game the more experienced people like my mother and father, or perhaps .

Before I end this letter, I hope you can thinking positive and you can think that the difference between good and bad. The challenges of life is a test where God wanted to test our patience and piety. Believe in yourself, God, the future and the people around you. You must remember that you are never alone.

Believe it.

Hoping that you will try to mend your ways

Sincerely,

Hisyam Saufi Bin Tajudin

(SOMEONE WHO LOVES TO HELP)